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Real Wedding | Bret + Brittany Harper

Bret and Brittany met as college freshmen at Northwest Missouri State University. He was the baseball stud at the gym and she was an office worker for the Rec Center and Pool, but they really hit it off during a game of flamingo football put on by their residence hall.

Almost five years later, Bret and Brittany found themselves on a family ski trip to Keystone, Colorado.

On the last run down the mountain for the day, the family all decided they would just ski down the mountain and meet back at the condo. But Bret and Brittany wanted to look for a trail called Ripper’s Roo. After finding it they started to ski down, but about twenty yards down there was a closed sign. Unable to ski back up the mountain, the couple decided to ski through the trees to get back to the main slope.

“Bret asked to go first through the trees since I was a little leery,” Brittany said. “He barely started and fell over! I was laughing because he didn’t need to fall over and then he started trying to take his skis off. I went over to help him and see what he was doing and he was on one knee with the ring.”

Brittany said he gave a very nice speech — one that neither of them remember because she was crying, shaking, jumping and saying YES!

“Before our ‘first look’ moment, we were getting ready and there was a door that headed straight out to a patio area,” Brittany said. “The boys were told to stand at one end, with the girls at the other, and the groom in front of them with his back to me. As I exited the doors, I was greeted with our handsome group of boys and it was nice to see them looking so sharp. As I turned and headed toward my groom, my heart started to beat faster and faster. Finally, our photographer told him to turn around. It was such an amazing moment with just our wedding party, to see my groom for the first time.”

The couple then exchanged rings, which neither of them had seen before. Brittany had picked out Bret’s and she hadn’t seen hers after the wedding band was sautered together. She said it was the perfect moment to share before the craziness of the day was about to begin.

Throughout their engagement and wedding planning process, Bret and Brittany’s main goal was to incorporate as much of their personalities and love for each other into the wedding as possible.

“I had been looking for ideas for some kind of unity activity during our ceremony song,” Brittany said. With so many couples doing sand or a unity candle, I wanted to think of something different. My mom found the idea for a unity braid, which had an amazingly biblical meaning and really contributed to our ceremony. We literally ‘tied’ our marriage together.”

Brittany recalled a sweet moment she had with her dad right before walking down the aisle. They had about five minutes just to themselves and started talking about the day ahead. They told each other they loved one another, but as the words were coming out of their mouths they quickly took them back as they both started to cry and tried to reel in the emotion a little so they weren’t bawling by the time they reached the ceremony doors

“We arrived at our reception, Hillcrest Country Club, where our signature drink, Tequila Smash, and a DJ were waiting for us to start the party,” Brittany said. “During the reception all of our guests began to ring the bells we had left for them as part of their favors. After doing this a couple times, we both stood up at the head table and Bret began to dip me, and plop! I fell on my chair! Everyone laughed and we secretly thought it was a good plan to have no one ring bells anymore.”

The couple ended the night with fun and dance in their lavender and pink, glitz and glam reception hall.

Best Advice: Stay organized
“Since I did not live in Lincoln for most of my engagement, it was a hard task to keep everything in one place,” Brittany said. “I started a wedding ‘tub’ where I kept everything from contracts, to promotions, to contact information. I filed everything accordingly, and this tub worked great on the go and was always with me on any appointment or trip.”

Essential Details:

Church: Christ Lutheran
Venue: HillCrest Country Club
Photographer: Slice-Studios
Videographer: Sullivan Photography
DJ: A Sound Impression
Cake: Sharon’s Cake’s
Florist: Russ’ Market
Bridal Party Dress: Ellynne Bridal
Tux’s: Tip Top Tux
Limousine Service: Leisure Limousine
Stationary: Melissa Leigh Designs

Other details can also be found on Bret and Brittany’s Wedding Website

Real Wedding | Mallory & Lucas Huddleston

Love blossomed early for this real wedding couple. Mallory remembers having to drive on their first date because Lucas was still too young.

As Mallory knows, some of the best presents come in the smallest boxes — Lucas proposed under the Christmas tree because he knew Mallory wanted a Christmas wedding.

“Under the tree were wrapped gifts that were full of memorabilia from our relationship,” Mallory said. “ I opened them all, and the last gift was a ring.”

Lucas and Mallory tied the knot on December 22, 2012. Before getting lost in a winter wonderland of sapphire blue, white and silver, guests wrote messages and signed their names on an ornament to put on the Christmas tree.

Mallory says that one of the memorable moments during the ceremony was when the priest was blessing the rings with holy water and the ring bearer got soaked because he was standing under the best man’s hand that was holding the rings.

Although they had booked a florist, Mallory said it was her godmother who made her bouquet.

“It was a brooch bouquet that had three satin buttons from my grandmother’s dress on the handle,” Mallory said. “It also had a brooch from Lucas’s great grandmother on the handle. I didn’t know about the bouquet before the wedding, my godmother surprised me just moments before the ceremony.”

As everyone knows, the day of the wedding is so busy and the bride and groom spend a lot of time talking to everyone and being told where to be and what to do but Lucas and Mallory were able to drown out the craziness of the day for three minutes to themselves on the dance floor.

While the dancing went on, Lucas and Mallory provided their guests with a hot cocoa bar with chocolate dipped candy canes, caramel, Bailey’s Irish Cream, marshmallows and pretzels.

“At one point we had a couple’s dance,” Mallory said. “All married couples were invited to the dance floor and the DJ dismissed couples form the floor starting with the people who had been married the shortest time. He eventually narrowed it down to the couple who had been married the longest, which was my grandparents who had been married for 56 years.”

And what better way to end this Christmas wonderland-themed wedding than to send their guests home with an assortment of homemade Christmas cookies.

Mallory and Lucas say they’re looking forward to experiencing life together and that traveling for their honeymoon made them even more excited for the adventures they will continue to have together.

“We are moving to California this summer so we are just excited to grow and enjoy our journey together,” Mallory said.

Essential Details:
Dress: Special Edition by Allure & cathedral length veil
Florist: Florals Etc.  
Caterer: Abraham Catering
Photographer: Lane Weddings
Music: Tony Ward (ceremony)  A Final Take (reception)
Honeymoon: Sandals Whitehouse Resort in Jamaica
Ceremony: St. John’s Catholic Church at Creighton University
Reception: Joslyn Art Museum
Cake: The Cake Specialist
Guests: 300

Real Wedding | Christine + John

This story begins with a bartender, Christine, and a customer named John. These two college kids had a few design classes together at the University of Nebraska at Kearney, but that was about it until John started coming into the bar with his buddies for happy hour that they really started talking.

Considering their college status, their dates consisted of a movie and popcorn in the comfort of their own homes

“I knew he was the one for me when I saw that he had Blue Hawaii in his movie collection,” Christine said.

After moving to Omaha and not finding any dream jobs, John was offered a design position in Ankeny, Iowa. Christine (who most of our readers know as Miss Deco) and John decided it was time to take the plunge, move in together in Ames, Iowa (20 minutes away from Ankeny).

“We had a great time living in Ames, but after a year we knew it wasn’t the place for us,” Christine said. “Luckily, I had a great opportunity to transfer with my job to Omaha so away we went!”

Christine and John have now been living in Downtown Omaha for several years with their French Bulldog, Cheese (how cute is that, right?!).

“We love the city life,” Christine said. “Now seven years later, we are taking another plunge into marriage and couldn’t be happier.”

When John proposed the couple was far away from the Nebraska life — they were in Boston, Massachusetts for a Celtics game.

“On our first morning there, as we were getting ready for the day, there was a knock on the door,” Christine said. “Thinking it was housekeeping, I had John answer it. Ah, but it wasn’t housekeeping, it was a bottle of champagne! Completely clueless, I wandered over to the bottle and there was a card to Ms. Christine Huebschman. Giving John a quizzical look, he told me to open up the card. It read ‘YES?’ and as I turned to John, he was down on one knee with the most fabulous ring! He asked me to marry him and of course I said YES!”

If there’s one thing to love about Christine’s wedding, it’s that she made it so personal to her and John. The couple had a ceremony that was perfect for the two of them and Christine said it was one of the best decisions they made when planning their wedding.

And you could probably call it a reception, but really, it was just a big dance party. They skipped all the gimmicky dance lines and bridal tosses — John even created a surprise playlist that was thrown into the mix that night.

“It was completely awesome to see our guests joining us on the dance floor and having a ball to our unorthodox music choices,” Christine said.

Christine and John spent a lot of time (and saved a lot of money) by creating their own decorations. They used wine bottles for vases, screenprinted their own table runners, designed their own wedding logo, painted a backdrop for the ceremony, collected family photos for table wreaths for the reception, painted frames to use in a photobooth, sewed together throw pillows for the reception lounge area and more.

John and Christine had so much fun at their wedding they almost forgot to have the marriage license signed!

Essential Details:
Proposal date: April 7, 2011
Wedding Date: October 13, 2012
Florist: Garden Flowers
Cake: Nothing Bundt Cakes
Caterer: Attitude on Food
Photographer: Bellus
Music: Michael Walker, The Vintage Vocalist
Wedding & Reception: Durham Museum
Colors: 1950′s Pink, Absinthe, Cinnabar, Fig & Blueberry
Number of Guests: 150

Real Wedding | Lindsay + Adam

Lindsay was supposed to meet up with Adam’s sister and brother-in-law for drinks when she found herself being led to the outdoor courtyard of the Magnolia Hotel in Omaha.

Adam had prepared a table with flowers, dessert and champagne to top it off. As Lindsay picked up the card that was sitting on the table, Adam pulled out a ring. And by the time Lindsay had finished reading the card, he was down on one knee.

Well done, Adam. Well done!

In October 2012, the couple exchanged vows — but not before Adam took an extra lap down the aisle, forgetting that he already seated the grandparents, not before one of the flower girls individually handed people flowers as she walked down the aisle and not before the best man ripped out his pants before the ceremony (and hid it deceptively well).

Foregoing many of the traditional routes, Lindsay decided to think outside the box to include several new things, making her wedding even more personal and special.

The importance of friends and family was something Lindsay and Adam wished to incorporate into the ceremony. So, instead of having a guest book, they had rocks for guests to sign and place in a vase.

“The concept was to acknowledge them as the ‘rocks’ in our lives. Once their rocks were collected, we poured our sand (unity ceremony) into the same vase to signify the importance of keeping our foundation (friends and family) as a part of our marriage.”

“My sister designed an area called ‘The Tot Spot’ with peanut butter jelly sandwiches, juice, activity bags, and games for kids to utilize during the outdoor cocktail hour.”

And, never having a strong desire for a wedding cake, Lindsay thought of a sweet alternative that meant so much more.

“We had a family dessert bar filled with all of our family favorites and famous recipes.  Our aunts, grandmas, sisters, and moms filled the table with their classics.  We also incorporated a ‘Family Tree’ by draping family pictures from trees as an accent to the dessert bar.”

Tired of going to weddings where everyone sat at their reception table a majority of the time, Lindsay and Adam changed things up for their wedding with a slightly different layout. Their reception was designed to be like an overblown cocktail party. This allowed for lots of cocktail tables, a few round tables with seating, and lounge areas with white leather couches and lit tables. And instead of a head table, they created an elevated, roped-off VIP area with couches, tables, and bottle service.

“My favorite part was being introduced for the first time as a couple.  Looking down from the balcony and seeing all of our family and friends while they cheered for us was a moment I will always cherish.”

Details: Ceremony/Reception: Fountains Ballroom Dress: Martina Liana Style 378 Caterer: Catering Creations Photographer: Erin Williams Colors: Cranberry, Spice, Butter Yellow Guests: 350 Honeymoon: Playa Del Carmen, Mexico

Inspiration // Consignment Shops

Michael and Jayne have been together since they were 15 and 16 years-old, but calling them high school sweethearts may be a little cliche. These two are inseparably crazy about each other. Jayne and Michael go to school in Omaha, but got married in June 2012 in St. Paul, Minnesota.

Here are some steal-worthy ideas from their big day:

      
1. Memorable moment: Michael and his groomsmen surprised me with a dance to “What Makes You Beautiful” by One Direction during the reception.

2. Decorations: We had three different centerpieces at our reception. My aunt, who was also the florist, did a beautiful job on the flowers for each centerpiece. One type of centerpiece were handmade birch vases. Michael and his dad made them all! They really brought our love of the outdoors into the reception hall.

3. Preparation advice: There are a lot of amazing people in this world. We had so many loving people around us supporting us and offering to help. I easily learned that you can never have enough help with a wedding! Before getting engaged, I thought I knew everything I wanted in my wedding, and I could handle planning a wedding (No problem, right?;) ). I swear all the options quadrupled when it actually came to making the decisions, and it was far more overwhelming than I ever thought.

4. Money saving advice: Consignment shops are your best friend. I know that sounds crazy, cheap and maybe a little wrong because you want the biggest, newest, and best for your wedding, but things like candles, vases, and candle holders add up. There are lots of wedding specialty consignment shops. The wedding consignment shops I visited were all clean, very well-organized, and incredibly helpful in saving money!

A little secret, I actually got my dress at a consignment shop! I was there to look for vases and stumbled upon the wedding dress room. The dress was a brand new dress that the owner of the shop had gotten at a sample sale – it was stunning and saved me a lot of money!

5. The ring: Something fun about my wedding ring is that there are sapphires in it, which is Michael’s birthstone. I wanted to add something personal and fun to the ring and now I absolutely love it!

6. The send-off: We gave every guest sparklers, which had a note on it that read “Let love shine, Light the way for Jayne & Michael.”

Photographer: AbbySue Photography

Real Wedding | Molly & Tim

Molly and Tim Walters met when they were in college at Creighton University. She’s sure it was her good looks and magnetic personality, but he says it was the sequined Christmas tree dress with dangling ornaments that got them talking.

Tim eventually took a job down in Orlando, Florida and Molly had moved with him. She was about five months pregnant with their daughter, Finley. On top of that, Molly was diagnosed with a condition that required her to be on bed rest. Needless to say, Tim thought she might need a little pick-me-up. And what could cheer someone up more than a proposal? Tim proposed to Molly on August 9, 2010 and they set a date to get married on May 18, 2012.
      
The couple got married at St. John’s Catholic Church at Creighton University and a reception was held at the Scott Conference Center.

Molly says that one of her most memorable moments from their wedding was when her one year-old niece walked across the altar behind all the action, which was a beautiful reminder for her to let the stress over the small details go and to enjoy what’s really important about the day.

But for Molly and Tim, there was one important person that was unable to share this moment with them — Dawn, Tim’s mother. She had passed away suddenly three years before. But at their reception, the couple had created a signature drink, “Dawn’s drink,” which gave their family and friends the opportunity to take a moment to remember all of her love and support.

“The biggest thing I learned from planning a real wedding was that there are a lot of expectations for your wedding day, but when it comes down to it, you’re planning a big ol’ party to celebrate your love, so you should focus on what’s important to you.”

Dress: Maggie Sottero
Florist: Flowerama on Pacific
Photographer: Tin Box Weddings
Caterer: Scott Conference Center
Guests: 275

     

Find more photos of Molly and Tim’s big day on page 55 of our Wedding Essentials Magazine

Real Wedding | Red, White and Blue Theme

 Ryan and Stephanie (Hix) O’Callaghan, married June 15th, 2012 at Rejoice Lutheran Church

 Wedding theme/colors: Marine/Mediterranean Blue, True Red, and platinum

Traditions that made this wedding unique/special for you: Bride and brides paternal grandfather danced to the song “Elvira” by the Oakridge Boys which was a special song that they used to dance to together ever since I was 3 years old

Theme for reception décor: Vintage Americana

Bride’s gift to groom: ‘Mr OCallaghan’ monogramed Converse sneakers, bottle of Hugo Boss cologne

Did you have a “first look” before the ceremony?: Yes, there were separate photos taken, then a first look between bride and groom just before the ceremony

How long did you date: 3 years

How did he propose: Ryan proposed to me the evening before the first day of school 2011. We were winding down from a long day of work, getting ready to watch a movie. When I turned my back to check on some information online, he got down on one knee right behind me.  He asked for me, and just when I turned around to respond, he had the ring out, and said “Will you marry me?” in which, of course, I blurted out, “Of COURSE I WILL!”

Details:
Transportation: JoneZ Party Bus
Make up: Hair, Make-up, and manicures by Concepts Salon
Dresses: JCPenney.com for bridesmaids dresses, Wedding dress and veil at Suburban Bridal
Tuxes: Exclusive Tuxedos and Dresses
Flowers: Flowers for Special Occasions (Jessica Pitt and Debbie Stoney)
Ceremony Venue: Rejoice Lutheran Church
Reception Venue: Georgetowne Club
Who performed ceremony: Pastor Ken Wittrock
Catering: Brandeis Catering
Cake: Ed LeFebvre, CupcakeIsland
Music: Showtime Music
Photography:  Multi-Images

Real Wedding | Under the Christmas tree

Kyla & Uriah tied the knot on November 17th beneath the giant Christmas tree at the Durham Museum.  Kyla had so many great ideas including monogrammed robes as bridesmaid gifts and having the ladies write a special message to her on the bottom of her wedding shoes while they were getting ready.  We also got a great something old (penny), something new (gorgeous hair piece from Kleinfeld in NYC), something borrowed (earrings) and something blue (shoes) shot.  In lieu of the traditional garter toss, the groom threw a football with the garter around it instead. Train whistles we given as favors. The couple was serenaded by Chris Saub on guitar during the ceremony and cocktail hour.
Details:
Photography: Lindsey George Photography
Save the Dates, Invitations, Programs, Menus: Simply Said by Courtney 
Videography: The Silver Screen
Hair: Renee Kruger
Make up: Blush Makeup Artistry
Dress: Bridal Traditions
Tuxes: Men’s Warehouse
Rings: Borsheims
Flowers: Town and Country Floral
Ceremony & Reception Venue: The Durham Museum
Officiant: Phil Human, Journey Church
Music: Chris Saub

Real Wedding | Two Day Wedding Extravaganza

From photographer Janine McClintock: We had the privilege of being a part of the fabulous Wendy Townley’s 2 day wedding blast!  She made us instantly feel like friends and guests instead of the help.  If you want great photos. . .. that is the perfect start! We were ready to adopt her mother and become her best friend with in 2 minutes of walking in the door.  She had a unique style, they were laid back, and it all reflected who they are as a couple.  It is going to go down as one of our favorite weddings!  Brides- take her advice and make your wedding about you.

From real bride Wendy Townley (via Janine McClintock Photography)

What can a girl say about her wedding day that hasn’t been said (or written) by other brides?  Now a few weeks out from my September 21 wedding, I feel I can sincerely echo the advice I heard countless times during the past few months.

Savor every single second of this most memorable day.

To make our wedding weekend distinctly ours, we chose a road not often taken. Instead of one big day, we celebrated over two days. We picked two separate venues and mailed two separate invitations. And, perhaps best of all, this bride wore her wedding dress not once – but twice!

Matt and I exchanged our vows on a warm and sunny Friday afternoon during a small outdoor ceremony at Omaha’s Memorial Park Rose Garden. We kept our Friday guest list to just one-hundred, only inviting immediate and extended family, and a small group of very close friends. Matt’s dad is a Methodist pastor, so we were delighted to have him officially make us husband and wife.  With handwritten vows and a kiss to make it official, we then headed downtown with our guests to the Omaha Press Club for appetizers, dinner, drinks, cake, and a relaxed evening to celebrate.

The next evening – Saturday, September 22 – Matt and I hosted a larger reception at the Whiskey Roadhouse, a live music venue inside the Horseshoe Casino in Council Bluffs, Iowa (just a ten-minute drive from downtown Omaha across the Missouri River). The evening was kept simple by design: the dress was casual, the music was live, and the drinks were flowing well past midnight. All of our Friday guests were also invited to the Saturday night party, as well as an additional three-hundred friends.

Matt surprised me with a Frank Sinatra serenade and a handful of wedding-related jokes. Although my feet looked fierce and fabulous in my Kate Spade heels, by night’s end I was ready for our whirlwind wedding weekend to come to a close.

The next morning we opened our gifts while enjoying a lovely brunch with our immediate family. It was the perfect end to a perfect weekend that Matt and I will remember forever.

 

Bride Blogger // Daddy Daughter

From Miss June:

Nothing makes me more emotional at weddings the the daddy-daughter moments. The moment when he gives her away and the daddy-daughter dance.  Janine did an excellent job capturing those moments between my father and I. He’s the best man in the whole entire world and I am so blessed to be his daughter.  His speech at our wedding was so touching and I had people coming up to me all night saying they wished they could be friends with my dad, or they wished they will be a dad like that someday, or even that they wish he was their dad!  I love him very much and I’ll never forget bawling my eyes out during the daddy-daughter dance as he told me how Brad was the perfect man for me, and that “perfect” was the only way he could think of to describe what he thought of me. I love my dad.

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